Men, we always want what we want, when we want it, and will do whatever it takes to get it. If it takes days to months to years to get it, once our heart is stuck with that decision, if it is that desirable, you will get it. For an example, if a man has dreams of having a 600 horsepowered 2010 Dodge Viper priced at $90,000, and it’s set on his heart, he’s going to do whatever he can to reach the goal of having that car. If a man dreams of having a wealthy bank account in this day and time, he will save more than he ever has to save that type of money for financial security. It is the same when a man wants a woman that is as beautiful and attractive as he’s ever imagined her to be. The man is mesmerized by her lips, her smile, her conversation, her hair, her scent, her body, her personality, her beauty. He is lost in love potion over this woman and, all of a sudden, can’t focus on the things he needs to take care of before even thinking about getting into a serious relationship. But he doesn’t care about those things that he does need to focus on in order to have a successful serious relationship with this woman. All he knows is that he wants what he wants, when he wants it, and will do whatever it takes to get it, but it is not that simple with women. It may appear that way for some time, but sooner or later, the truth will walk out and sooner or later, she will too. Here are five things that I to consider before getting into a serious relationship with the woman of your dreams.
- Credit is a very huge asset to maintain in this day and time. As of January 2011, the national average credit score is 692. Even looking at credit scores state by state, clearly, you can see. In a serious relationship, sooner or later, you both may want to move in together into a house or even a bigger apartment or condo overlooking the city and with a credit score of 550-600, your male ego may shrink a little if you get turned down. Keep a good eye on your credit score and credit report and make your payments on time because once your score is up, it is easy to keep it up if you are making your payments on time but once you miss one payment within a month, your score is liable to drop about 20-30 points.
- Finances also need to be in order along with your credit score. The woman of your dreams is very outgoing, loves to go out to dinner on different occasions, may love to shop, may like gifts, etc. If your woman loves these types of things, you don’t want to be scraping around for money to get what she wants or do what she may want to do if it requires money. You are going to have to provide for her and if you begin to work on a family, a bigger vehicle and a home will be in demand. Keep a very strict budget and stick to that. You should maintain at least six months of income in a savings account just in case of an emergency. A healthy bank account is always something good to have whether you are single or not. Just like the old saying goes, no woman wants a broke man.
- Goals that you want to reach are a huge asset in a relationship. Personal goals for a man are what drives him to reach the things he desires and it also keeps him going. That’s one of the great things about being a man and it is also a necessity. Don’t be a slouch on the couch all century long. Get up and establish goals for yourself because your woman will not stand for it. Trust and believe that.
- OLD FLINGS must be cut off COMPLETELY!!! AGAIN, I REPEAT, OLD FLINGSmust be cut off COMPLETELY!!! You need no distractions from women you were within the past. You do not need to keep in contact with any of them, not even as “good friends”. It brings nothing but trouble. If you are always thinking about or even attempt to go back to your old fling(s), then what is the woman of your dreams doing here? Get it together and get focused. Another recommendation along with this is to stay away from sites such as Facebook, MySpace, Match, and any other types of sites that can potentially, or are, used for dating purposes. The woman of your dreams deserves your undivided attention. Don’t you think so?
- Understand the type of woman you are with or desire to be in a serious relationship with. Be flexible with her. Be patient with her. Give her your support. Be caring, kind, and loving to her. Never take her for granted. Never disrespect her. Never step out the back door on her. Being sincerely understanding of your woman also shows maturity towards her. Notice how I said, ‘being sincerely understanding’ and not just ‘being understanding.’ Show her how much of a queen she is to you and how much you appreciate her being in your life.
Men, I have absolutely no doubt that if you follow these five steps, you will be ready to start a successful serious relationship that you desire with the woman of your dreams. Take a serious look at your personal situation and ask yourself, ‘Am I ready to be in a serious and committed relationship?”