Living in a city, where you would expect couples in love, became wool over a sheep’s face. The majority of the couples, in cities, have a third wheel within the relationship. While in a relationship, we choose to have the third wheel, because we chose to have the relationship open for options. Is it ok to date other people while we are tied down? Do we understand the word commitment? when we look for our third wheel, we tend to search in all the wrong places. From bars to clubs, we are basically looking for a “good time.” We want our cake and eat it too. We also tend to complain if our significant other tends to find love in his/her third wheel. Can we stay committed if our third wheel fails? If we want love, we should act like we want love. Open relationships fail on the first date. We should be able to be in a committed relationship with someone we love to be with, want to be with, and enjoy being with. There is no such thing as “open relationship.” If we choose to be open, we might as well say we are single and ready to mingle.