Are there any reasons that a stay-at-home dad should have less or more sex than a dad that is at work? Speaking for myself it’s about the same being in three different at home situations.
Situation 1: You’re a stay-at-home dad that still works from home.
Situation 2: You were bringing in additional income(part-time or unemployment) but, the job was terminated and the unemployment is exhausted.
Situation 3: You’re just a stay-at-home dad.
Being in situation 2 is the one that is all good until the money stops. Men, this has a negative effect on us especially after searching for a career diligently for any long period of time. Finding a job that pays all or the majority your family’s neccessities is very hard to obtain in a country that is up to its neck in nation wide recession. The amount of relations that were being handed to you on a platter may at times now be rationed out. We’re thinking, “Why”!
Being in situation 1 you have it made with being at home and still bringing in an income. You maintain your title and your presence is financially felt. So, that platter is more than likely on a steady schedule and is served piping hot! There are reasons that wil make the sex count take a dive. The main reason is that even though you’re home; you’re not there. You are not available to your partner or your children because you may be to indulged into your work load. For some people working from home is just as time consuming and exhausting as working away from home.
Being in situation 3 may not be as rewarding in the “Boom-Boom-Room” solely because of the lack of not contributing financially in previous months or currently. Finances are a killer period when is comes to marriages and relationships that may or may not include children. The person is situation 3 may have to go above and beyond constantly to get a serving of that delicious platter.
All three situations have their own delimas. Mainly all three cause unwanted additional stress and depression which can and will lead to a slower sex drive. In some cases it can lead to temporary impotence. If you’re the dad in situation 1 break away from the desk as often as you can and be spontaneous with your partner and be more available to your children. If you are in 2 keep your head up and stay on the hunt for a real job but, also maintain your fatherly duties and spice up your relationship as well.
Most importantly, all the dads that are in any of these situations need to stop concentrating on work/finances constantly to the point where it consumes them and their relationships.